Finally Following Directions

When Blaine and I were married, President Pinegar of the Manti Temple officiated. It was such a beautiful ceremony, and in the middle of it all, I am pretty sure I burst out into this little laughter/crying thing that sounded super awkward.

I was just so happy, spontaneously and completely, and I could not contain that joy.

President Pinegar offered some advice, that for our first family home evening we sit together and each make a list of the things we love about the other and then tape the lists above our bed. Instead, our first Monday night together was spent cleaning up our new home. We talked about the lists, but Blaine thought it would be a little awkward, so we moved on.

I think a computer list may be even better for Blaine because he can mark this post as a favorite and visit it as often as possible.

For those of you who don't really know my husband, there are hundreds of things that I love about him, and that list is growing each day. But, for the sake of integrity, I think I will stick with 10 things that first made me fall in love:

• Blaine and I are music soul mates. Before we were dating, he made me a cd that included Nike Boots, one of the funniest songs I know. The fact that he owned the song spoke volumes. More so, he included a bunch of other songs I didn't know and I loved EVERY SINGLE ONE.

• Blaine smiles with his whole face. His laugh is contagious and his laugh lines are incredible.

• Blaine is unfailingly generous.

• He is more even-tempered than I am. He lets me be fired up and loves me still.

• He cares for his mother in a tender, beautiful way.

• Blaine and I giggle together.

• Sorry for those of you who don't want to know this, but the very first time Blaine and I kissed it felt electric. I knew that moment that I would marry him.

• He is the first man that I have had to call my little sister about at three in the morning, just because of that kiss.

• Blaine knows how to do so much. He understands computers and wiring and plumbing. What he doesn't know, he is willing to learn. He is willing to sit and have reading parties with me.

• Blaine is a part of my heaven.